I’ve decided not to go on the six-week European trip. Instead, I’m going to get a job and spend more quality time with my husband. I’ve been searching for a while now…perhaps going through a mid (or maybe later) life crisis. Feeling that I have to fit everything in now. I typically had jobs/careers that offered one or two weeks of vacation per year and while my son was growing up, the time was spent going to Myrtle Beach or boating/camping. When I finally was able to travel for longer periods of time…I went a little “hog-wild”!
We’ve all heard “Balance is important in life” or “All things in moderation” and I haven’t been living my life in balance lately. So…having recognized that, I’m now going to change it. It’s O.K. to travel and have fun, but for me to feel fulfilled, I realize I need a purpose. I enjoy helping people and I have a lot of interests and talents. Instead of staying trapped in the thinking that I have to figure everything out now…I’m just going to take action and start somewhere!
If you heart is not with you on the journey – the journey will be very empty. You have to follow your heart where ever it leads you – even if it’s only to the next block.
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So true!
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“The greatest treasures are those invisible to the eye but found by the heart.” – Anon
Good luck with the new job and have a blast staying with your family 🙂
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Thanks Sapna – first I have to find one!
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You have a husband?! I’m sure he will adore spending more time with you.
All of your travels have been so intriguing and love is an adventure of its own. I look forward to your next chapter with renewed interest.
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We are enjoying each other!! Thanks for the sweet compliment!
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Perhaps you could find a way to combine travel with your desire to find purpose – something like mission work. I understand that not all mission trips have to be for extended periods; it’s possible to take two- or three-week trips to help build homes or other needed structures in many different parts of the world.
Granted, it’s probably not the same as touring the Hermitage in St. Petersburg or taking in the Taj Mahal, but it might be a totally different – and eye-opening – experience.
Just my two cents worth. Good luck.
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I’ve thought of that. I need to make money though. Thanks for stopping by!
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Yes, money is important. I’ve considered a two- or three-week mission trip, though. Might be able to knock out my wanderlust and desire to help at the same time.
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Luck….when organized preparation meets…..opportunity.
John
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That’s a great way to put it! Thanks John!
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Wish you all the best with whatever you decide to do 🙂
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Thanks Madhu!!
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Sometimes the decisions come with time … thus it is never good to challenge time. NO rush – you will know when it is time for your next trip.
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Thanks Frank…you’re right!!
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Sherry,
Kudos for knowing what was best for you and your family, making the decision and posting it publicly to back it up. I appreciate your honesty and integrity with us…even though we are just cyber family (so to speak). It shows the strength of your true character… something I really admire you for. There will be more trips and you will appreciate them more because you made this decision of balance for yourself.
Now for that “finding a job” adventure 😉
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That is so kind of you Michelle! It makes me feel good to know that you think highly of me!
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I’m sorry that you are not going to travel more as I really enjoyed your trip through Africa… but Hubby I’m sure will enjoy the time with you…
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Yes…I will miss going to Europe, but I have fun no matter where I’m at!!
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In negotiating “terms of travel” (and anything else) with others, I try to use the rule of enthusiastic agreement.There is more negotiation to be done if all parties cannot be COMPLETELY enthusiastic about the plan. For example, I always included casinos with one travel partner (resulted in cruises of the Mediterranean, Baltic, and Aegean seas, and a nice tour of California with a cruise of the Mexican Riviera). I used his Poker time to explore Monte Carlo on my own and, when he won, dinner was on him! The non-traveler and tavel-luster were both ecstatic over the compromise we’d negotiated.
I hope you all come out of your negotiations with enthusiasm. Its a proud moment when the team wins together!
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That’s a great way to compromise/negotiate! You’re a very practical and wise person!!
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One of the hardest things is putting something out there and then retracting it. Well done in realising where you need to be right now.
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Thanks very much!!
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It is good to have a change..:-)
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Life is change!
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Good decision me thinks. Sorry we didn’t connect in Cincinnati last month. Would have loved to meet you and engage in much conversation. Now follow your compass stateside. Hugs!
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Hugs to you too Georgette!!
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a woman with a purpose!! you have said it, you need to follow your heart
wish you the best!!
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Thanks Ellen!!
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So you need a break, whatever you need, do it. I was gone a month and did have to get used to that idea, not seeing new sites though, like yourself. I do prefer one or two weeks away many times a year, ha ha. I will miss the adventure, yours that is! Good luck finding a job.
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I don’t really need a break…it’s more that I’ll spend all of my money if I don’t work at some point!
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I fully understand what you’re thinking. I wish all the best to you and your family!
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Thank you very much!!
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I was a little bit worried about you leaving on another trip right away — even though I LOVE reading about all your adventures (and how ironic, considering I’m going to 12 countries in 12 months, right?) … but I can’t wait to hear what you’ll be doing next. I KNOW it will be exciting, and I’m quite sure your husband is very thankful for your decision!!
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Hi Betty – He is thankful!! xoxoxo
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Europe is not going anywhere. Whenever you want to come and visit us, we will welcome you with open arms! 🙂 Ps, you should always listen to your inner voice.
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You’re right! Sometimes I tend to stuff too much in to a small time frame!!
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work followed by travel will be much more fun than travel followed by more travel – me thinks – so a break might actually spice things up 🙂
All the Best !
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Great point! Thanks!
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Good for you for listening to your inner voice. Balance is on the way because you’ve made the declaration. I am certain that all will be well.
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Thanks Marie!
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Ahh this was so nice to read. I’ve been feeling very torn about being locked down where I am or up and leaving for a world wide adventure. It’s so nice to know I’m not the only one who struggles with these things. I do love your life of travels though :D!
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Hi Brittany – It can be confusing! I think whatever we do we should be enjoying life and not worrying! It’s easy for me to give you advice…but you’re so young…go travel!!!
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Travelling is something you can do any time, as long as you have your health. Good for you for having the guts to reassess things and doing what you feel is best for you. There’s nothing wrong with having a second look at decisions.
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Thanks Anneli. Sometimes, I have a third, fourth and fifth look (ha..ha)!
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I wish you good luck!
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Thanks for your support!
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I find it interesting your thinking, it’s good to spend time with family. Husbands need our company, our moral and spiritual support. Better times to come. The heart is the voice of the soul and is good to stop and listen.
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Thank you!!
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